Are we still married…?
HELLS YES! Things are going really well in our little household of two. β€
Its funny how when I am REALLY happy, how often I give him a treat. Today we initiated December by buying a teeny tiny Christmas tree,π stockings, decorations and fun stuff to decorate the house. I had made a playlist which we played and I had bought cinnamon oil to put in our candle oil-burner, so the house smelled sooo Christmassy as we were writing cards for our families. For the first time signing our names together, as a married couple. How neat is that..? π
The day was interrupted sometimes with Santa’s helper being a naughty girl and Santa having to have a serious talk with her, π and Santa’s helper getting her big Christmas wish fulfilled a little early, – sucking on a big candy cane. π So yeah, there was a lot of sex, and nice treats for my man, for the past few days things have gotten better. And I take it down to us working on our foreplay, and him doing more for me. Although we’re not really doing as much foreplay as we should, STILL being too impatient, I feel like he is more aware and trying MUCH harder. To initiate pleasing ME. And we are so merry at the moment that things are just gliiiiiding so smoothly.
I am so lucky! Here’s to december, and all the days of Christmas preparations ahead!
Congrats to you and keep on keeping on lol
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Ah, yes, what better treat than to suck on a nice hard and long candy cane… Lucky both of you!
I love your picture. And I love all I read in this post. Signing together on the Christmas Cards, how lovely!
Yeah, I get it, you may want to take more time with foreplay. But remember, all advice, especially advice about sex, is to take with a pinch of salt. The most important thing is to have fun, enjoy yourselves. There is no right or wrong way to do this. Just as long as you both have fun π
Enjoy the preparations π
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Dawn, I though a spoonful of sugar goes better with sex advice!
LW, you are a fantastic helper for Santa. I tend to savor the foreplay, going back to it repeatedly between the other activities. There is no wrong unless it comes down to refusal. I hope that you find ways to communicate about your needs and desires more. When I started to take risks and talked very plainly, boldly telling Savannah what I wanted and needed (both are very unique), she began to follow suit with her own wants and needs. It was strange (in retrospect) that it took us this long to to get here, but here we are. The communication is almost as hot and exciting as the foreplay.
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I’m not sure I get what you’re saying…
And I agree, having an open communication is as hot as any actual act π
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Sugar – sweet – sticky – candy???
Salt…not as much?
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Ah! But the best treat in the end is really more salty than sweet, is it not? π
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Mostly… π
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I don’t know about that. I’ve been known to enjoy my own…it is more sweet than salty. π
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Hmmm, interesting bit of trivia! Would have to compare π
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You’re not satisfied with my flavor discernment abilities or impartiality?
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Neither, I’m just curious by nature π
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Ahhhhh ha ha ha… I just got that now too!
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Then you’re one step ahead of me…
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Sorry to Dawn for being a little to low-brow with my humor. I though she knew me enough to pick up on my very droll, dry humor. π
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Dawn is just too tired and stressed to know whether she still has much of a sense of humour… Good night everyone π
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Good night! I can’t believe that you’re still up!
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Me neither! And it’s not a good sign or a good thing. π¦
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That is so inspiring and exciting to read! And I am sure what you want changes alot down the line, so keeping the honesty and openness is so important. π I will try to do the same
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Thank you Dawn! You are so right… We love getting advice, and we put it all in our toolbox. And we choose to try those tools we want, and use the ones that are good for us. π You enjoy it too…!
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Love this! OMG! That pic is sexy! π
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Hahahah thank you!
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